#TemptationTuesday - "Monograms"

Craving today's #ThirstyThursday tips? Okay so this week's wedding design is an explosion of color and cool ideas.

First up, the napkin in the top left corner, it not only matches the decor, but has a monogram illustrated on it. Monogramming is hot now! And I don't just mean the monogram that gets projected onto the dance floor (which is always stylish). I mean, people are mongramming everything! Its on invites, programs, favors, even table runners! You can create your own using any word document and special font, then apply it to everything.

Next up, let's talk about the WOW factor in this design...the unique centerpiece! Okay, so I don't recommend you purchase a set of pool balls for every table (crazy!), but doing something totally different, totally you and your sweetie, and totally affordable is what matters most! There are way too many ideas out there for me to name, so just go on Pinterest or google unique wedding centerpieces to get some ideas that suits your personality and your budget.

I am absolutely in love with the Menu Card pic on the left hand side. Although more pricier than a buffet style reception, more brides are choosing the elegance of a sit down, butler passed meal. And instead of going through the hassle of sending menu options in with the invites, they are selecting one or two entrees for their guests to enjoy. Thus, a menu card is placed at each table setting to let the guests know what to expect. You can make simple menu cards using any boxed set of stationary, or make your own quirky creation! Check us out on Pinterest for two great ideas.

And last but certainly not least, the cushioned seating with pillows pic. OMG! This is a trend with alot of destination weddings but more and more brides with hefty budgets are doing it. Create a lounge area within your reception hall where you and your sweetie can have some alone time during the chaos. Or create a larger space for guests to sit and reconnect as though they were in a comfortable living room. Renting furniture, or buying cushioned ottomans and pillows, can make this an affordable thing to do. Couple it with small tables and candles, and you've got high end style for close to nothing!

But if you're not crafty or can't stick to a budget, give us a call! That's what we do best. We have a Monogram Projector so your name can be in lights. And we can create totally unique and vibrant items to make your day stand out from the crowd.

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#Temptation Tuesday‎ - "Mixing Metals"

"Mixing Metals"

I suggest you hire a professional because there's alot of work in this design...but if you're up for the challenge, so be it...

Mixing metals is like baking a cake from scratch...it takes a balance of the right ingredients. Too little, and the flavor gets missed. Too much, and you've made a complete mess! So choose gold and silver colors that play well together, and don't go crazy..like I always say, keep it elegant and classy.

Start with DIY invites, programs, and escort cards. Embellish everything with self adhesive gem stones. Follow us on Pinterest for a step by step how to.

Rent everything to keep your costs down! Simple Elegance has plenty of chair sashes, chargers, and vases for you to choose from.

Create a signature drink to be served during cocktail hour, in a special glass. But make sure your venue doesn't charge extra to stock the liquor or ingredients needed. And be sure to tip the bartenders for going that extra mile!

Do cupcakes instead of cake; it cuts down on cost and waste. But hire a professional cake vendor; they'll make sure the silver sprinkles are edible.

Last but not least, can't afford napkin rings for 100+ guests? Don't worry, we can create a beautiful and affordable substitute.
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#TemptationTuesday - "Outside In"

Helping you add a little zing to your wedding, this decor design has alot going on!

Trending now in the wedding industry are chalkboards and mason jars. So you can find them in any local craft store. Online providers such as eFavorMart and Koyal Warehouse are great sources for this year's hot colors, sizes, and shapes.

Also you may not be able to tell what the chalkboard says, but it tells your guests to choose a seat, not a side. Traditionally, those who know the bride sit on one side, and those who know the groom sit on the other side. Couples are now saying to heck with tradition! This is a wonderful way to get guests to mingle. But you can still set aside seating for family members by making Reserve signs at home, using any card stock or stationary. Follow us on Pinterest for how-to's.

This decor's spring time freshness comes from the gorgeous flowers their florist used. Ask your florist to replicate the bunches by using seasonal flowers from your local area. It will save you money, and your florist time if they don't have to import your order from abroad. The best way to not break your budget is to use silk flowers for everything. They look just as nice as real flowers and last longer in warmer weather.

Bring the sunshine inside by coordinating what you did outdoors, on your reception tables. It may be costly to buy that many mason jars for each table, so use glass vases instead. Also select from your venue's colored napkins to enhance your wedding colors; the use of their linens are usually included in your banquet package.

Rent the garden hooks (that hold the mason jars & line the aisle), the table, linens, and an arch from Simple Elegance! We've got everything you need for a gorgeous outdoor ceremony on a budget!
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#TemptationTuesday - "50 Shades of Purple"

Thirsty for tips on this week's 50 Shades of Purple event design? Here's how:

Whenever you're working with various shades of a color, its important to use complimentary hues. Hit your local Home Depot or Lowes for paint color sample cards...they're free! Pick shades that are close in the color spectrum, but that will make an impact. Take those sample cards when you shop or have meetings with your vendors, to make sure your colors stay on point.

Next, one of the hottest trends is using linens and drapery in event design for both added color and texture. On a budget? Your local craft store has fabric to make table runners if you're a DIYer; or use a rental company for tablecloths. 

Talk to your florist or hire a decorator like Simple Elegance to create this stunning yet affordable centerpiece. We have these glass cylinder vases to rent and we can work with real flowers or silks depending on your budget. Also, hanging drapery can be tricky so let a professional like us do it for you. We'll work with your venue to get it done!

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#TemptationTuesday Series Jump Start

We're starting a new blog series called, "#Temptation Tuesday" in April!

We will take a gorgeous wedding design and tempt you to change the sad wedding decor you're currently planning. We'll show you creative tips, budget friendly alternatives, and rental items we can offer you, to get that design on a dime! Stay tuned!

RSVP's

Morning Wed-heads!

I know, I know...I didn't blog last week. Again it seems like I was overwhemingly busy last week. But as always, I am committed to helping you succeed at your DIY wedding, so let's get to work!
So last time, we discussed ways to decrease stress. Check out the July 11th post when you have a chance and review it at any time. Stress will be a constant in your life from now until you head for your honeymoon. So learn ways to stop it in its tracks, or atleast minimalize it. I want you to make mole hills out of mountains! LOL Meaning, having ways to deal with stress will make every issue seem smaller than it actually is.

Studies in the industry show that in general, 50% of all brides stress over money. And about 50% of brides stress over time, because they probably started planning too late or didn't stay organized and the time bandit is knocking at their door to get all of their projects finished. But during the actually planning process, I've come to see that all of my clients come to the table with one extremely large stressor on their shoulders: The RSVPs.




Let me tell you upfront, handling the RSVPs sucks for a DIY Bride! You already had to deal with the craziness of how many people can you afford to invite, how many people you're actually going to invite, and then sending out invitations. If you follow most online checklists like TheKnot.com provides, you will have a 6 week window to deal with the straight foolery of RSVP management. If you do not send out your invitations 6 weeks in advance, then you will have even more stress on your plate! And I wish you luck! LOL

RSVPing is THE most annoying part of planning any event, wedding or otherwise. It is relying on a large number of people to actually do what they're told to do (reply); when they're told to do it (reply date). That almost never happens! People are so busy with their own lives, they will continue pushing your wedding invitation around on their kitchen counter until the absolute last minute. It never dawns on them that they are being totally inconsiderate by not responding in a timely manner.

RSVPs is the single most budget-buster there is when it comes to a wedding. Until you can approximate how many people are going to attend, you will be on pins and needles until they do. You are unable to move forward with the next phases of planning, like table arrangements, favors, and most importantly...advising the reception location how many people they need to seat and order food for. Thus people kill me by not RSVPing on time! If they would just realize that by not replying, they could very well end up without a chair to sit in and no food to eat, it would make everyone's lives a little easier. But people will never get it, unless they've been down their own horrible wedding planning road. So to keep your sanity, here's some good advice:

Create two lists- Addresses and Phone Numbers: When you're sitting down with your parents and in-laws-to-be to create the guest list, make sure you obtain both addresses and phone numbers of everyone on the list. If they do not have the phone numbers handy, ask for it as soon as possible. Or ask for another means of contacting them, such as email or facebook. Obtaining phone numbers in advance will help on the back end when people are late replying. You will be able to call them and either remind them to send back the reply card, or you can get their reply right over the phone.

Assign an early RSVP date: When creating your invitations, whether via professional vendor, online services such as Shutterfly, or with a boxed set from the local crafts store; assign an early RSVP date. The earlier the better when it comes to RSVPing. Give your family and friends enough time to reply, but give them a date that works for you..not them. Keep in mind, all reception locations have a drop dead deadline for your guest count. It could be 7 days before the wedding, it could be 3 days before. Don't shoot yourself in the foot and make that day your RSVP date! Count backwards from your wedding date to the date that the reception hall needs the numbers by, then count backwards again atleast another 7 days. What this gives you is TIME!!!! You will have an extra 7 days before the reception hall needs their numbers, to receive in late replies and you will have time to contact anyone you have not heard from, as that date dangerously approaches.

Follow the six week rule: Mail out your invitations atleast six weeks before your wedding. Preferrably, six weeks before that early RSVP date if possible. Keep in mind, that most people travel in the summer, so for a summer wedding, you can broaden that six weeks to maybe eight weeks; giving people more time to plan their vacation around it, or return home from vacay and get their mail. And always give more time for a destination wedding.

By doing the above items, you will not totally alleviate stress from the RSVPing process, but it will definitely minimize it drastically. And if this is not something you want to deal with, remember, you can always contact a professional. I have handled just the invites and RSVPs for several clients, just because they didn't have the patience for it.

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Bye for now Wed-heads!

Dealing With Stress

Good afternoon Wed-heads!

Yes, I know it's Friday..I'm like five days late with my blog! I'm soo sorry! This week has really gotten away from me. Not even sure why I was busy every second of every day, but I was!  That happens when everything needs your attention, when everyone needs your time, and when every day is filled with many tasks to be done. Thus this week's topic: dealing with the stress.

Stress is defined as "a state of mental tension and worry caused by probems in your life, work, etc."  Stress while planning a wedding as a DIY Bride, in addition to dealing with life, work, etc should be defined as "hell on earth!" LOL I mean it truly is! When a bride decides not to hire a professional planner, she assumes all the tasks, responsibilities, and stresses that go along with planning; in addition to her already busy and stressful life. This is why we now have expressions like "Bride-zilla" and "Monster-inlaw"! Because the enormous amount of pressure can cause a bride and other family members to simply...snap!



As a professional, I have always been on the fence about DIY Brides, siting the challenges and accolades it brings having to do it all yourself; so I do not always recommend it. But since I care about my fellow Wed-heads, I am committed to helping you achieve the most beautiful and memorable wedding possible as a DIY Bride. So here are some ways to deal with the stress.

1. Be and Stay Organized. If you've been following my blog, you know that day 1 I suggested pulling out all those magazine pictures and Pinterest ideas, and putting them into a binder divided into each wedding category such as Ceremony, Reception, Flowers, Entertainment etc. So hopefully you followed suit. If not, do not do anything else until you do!  It is imperative to be and stay organized throughout the entire planning process, if you want to avoid or decrease stress. Keep your contracts, contact info, color swatches, and other pertinent info in this binder. And then keep the binder in your work bag or the trunk of your car. You never know when you may need it! Protect this binder with your life if need be! LOL It is your wedding planning bible!  Having everything in one organized place, allows for better preparedness and communication. And that will always alleviate stress.

2. Keep track of important dates/times. Stay on top of venue/vendor meetings by adding the dates to your calendar on your cell phone. We all walk around with our phones attached to our hands nowadays, so why not have important appointments handy at the swipe of your finger. Plug in the meeting date and time, but also add a reminder in for the day before your appointment. By getting a reminder the day before, you have time to get prepared for the meeting, such as writing down any questions you may have, or putting pertinent samples and documents in your binder you may need. Forgetting meetings and documents are a huge cause of stress for brides when you don't have a professional to remind you of these things.

3. Keep a checklist. There are tons of websites, such as The Knot.com, devoted to giving you planning checklists to help keep you on track. Most checklists will advise you when you should accomplish certain tasks during your planning process, such as when you should mail your invitations etc. Find a list that works for you and stick to it. Make sure you mark it off as you go. If you dont, you will end up forgetting something and redoing tasks unnecessarily. Causing you unneeded stress.

4. Stay on budget! No seriously, stay on budget. I can not stress it enough. The biggest stressor most brides have is MONEY! DIY Brides always want what they can't afford, and there's no one willing to break their hearts and tell them no. That's usually a planners job to politely keep them on budget and excited about what they can actually afford. I'm usually the devil sitting on my client's left shoulder screaming in her ear about her budget! LOL But that's my job.  As a DIY Bride, you have to be your own Money Police! LOL Again, if you've been following my blog, keep your budget spreadsheet in your binder and resort to it whenever you get the urge to overspend.  Since money is half the battle when it comes to wedding planning, don't make it a part of the battle. If you stay on budget, I promise you, you will reduce 90% of your stress, guaranteed.

5. Ask for help. Enlist the help of your fiance', your girls, your mother..anyone that will help. You can not do it all, even if you think you can. Balancing home, work, and life in general is a dauntng task in itself. Yes, all women are Wonder Woman! But we don't always have to be. Ask others to help and that frees up your time and energy for other things.

6. Balance the wedding planning. Do not let planning your wedding consume you! It does not have to be your every thought or fill your every waking moment. You surely will snap if its all you think about. Plan some down time around the planning. Maybe only do wedding errands two weekends a month, and the other weekends get out and enjoy yourself. Or schedule meetings only on Saturdays before noon; that way the rest of the day is yours to do nothing or to spend time with your fiance. Either way, plan the wedding, don't let it plan you.

7. Make planning fun and stress free. Finally, do things with your fiance or your girls that makes planning enjoyable. Get a massage or a spa treament before going to your hair/makeup trial. Go out dancing the night before your meeting with the DJ to get song ideas for him to play. Or plan a camping trip or other outing one weekend with the entire wedding party; have fun while getting them all together at once to give them much needed info like hotel info, arrival times etc.

Bottom line, when and if you feel yourself getting stressed by the planning process, because there will be a little stress, take a few days off from it. Forget about it for awhile and clear your head. You will return to the table with a clear mind and a refreshed attitude. And then if that doesn't help...hire a planner! LOL

Next week, we will discuss RSVPing. Its number two on the list of stressors, right after money. But I'll show you ways to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally to deal with them.

Until then, Wed-heads, have a great weekend!